17 Incredibly-Simple Ways to Be Happy Right Now
We all just want to be happy, don’t we? So why is that we tend to
live our lives steeped in worry, anxiety, and fear rather than just
being happy? Is happiness just a temporary state of mind, or is
something real and long-lasting?
No doubt you’ve
heard the expression before that if you want to be happy right now, all
you have to do is decide to be so. But if you ask any ordinary person,
they might either tell you that it’s absolutely out of the question or
downright impossible.
But is it really?
The fact is that happiness is something that’s attainable, and we all
have it within ourselves to be happy right now. Winning the lottery
won’t do it. Or being handed a million-dollar inheritance or the perfect
job won’t do it either. We will always just find something else to
chase after.
So, the question that begs us is this: How can we be happy right now, in this very moment
While there are
likely dozens of ways to increase your state of happiness, 17
incredibly-simple methods exist that can help you attain happiness in
this very moment.
#1 — Be Grateful
While most of
us can riddle off a list of gripes we have with our lives, we often
don’t claim what we’re grateful for. In fact, we take it as the status
quo. But, if we were to look around at the current state of affairs with
the world’s population, we would have much more to be grateful for.
When we’re
grateful for the things we have rather than complaining about the things
that we don’t, we move away from a state of lack and towards a state of
abundance. Happiness is rooted in that state of abundance. And we have
far more to be grateful for than we could possibly ever imagine.
If we stopped
to think about it, there are, in fact, a number of things that we could
be grateful for right now. We could be grateful for the fact that we’re 6
feet above ground in this very moment. We could be grateful for the
fact that we can read and write, or use reason and logic.
We can also be
grateful for our families, our homes, our communities, our friends, our
schools, our jobs, and a number of other things. All it takes is a shift
in focus. If those things were stricken from our lives, we would
instantly long for them. Why shouldn’t we be grateful to have what we
have today?
#2 — Be Present
Being present means living in the moment.
It means appreciating everything happening in the here and now, no
matter how bad or good it might be. Without having to worry about the
past or fret over the future, being present is one of the most
incredibly-simple ways to be happy right now.
All you need to
do is live in this very moment — to train your mind to be highly acute
and aware of what’s happening right now. It’s about feeling the air
rushing in and out of your lungs, the blood pulsating through your
heart, the wind as it whips nearby or the sound of birds singing.
There is so
much happening at any given moment, and the beauty and miracle of life
is unfolding all around us that we must stop to just appreciate it. When
we do, we remove ourselves from fear and anxiety, decreasing our stress
and worries.
This doesn’t
mean you have to pretend like problems don’t exist. All of us have
problems. In fact, problems are a sign of life. But it’s also a method
for transcendence of our problems. It’s a way to rise above and move
past them, mentally, emotionally, and spiritually.
#3 — Get Inspired
One
incredibly-simple way to be happy right now is to get inspired. Find
something that inspires you, whether it’s a television show, a book, an
article, or an online video, and take the time to engage yourself in it.
Find something
that aligns with your hopes and your aspirations. Find other people
who’ve been through tough times and have succeeded. Who are the people
that inspire you most? Today, it’s easy to source inspirational material
online.
Use TED Talks, YouTube, and other resources to find something that will help fill your heart with inspiration.
#4 — Be Generous
Often, when we
can shift the focus from us to other people by being generous in
whatever way we can, we can find a sense of happiness. Most of us will
do more for others than we will do for ourselves. The problem is, we
usually just get so caught up or busy that we simply forget to help
others.
Be generous.
What can you do for someone else? Who needs your help right now? You
don’t have to donate money if you don’t have it. Donate your time. Help
someone figure something out or solve a problem. You’ll feel far more
happier once you do.
#5 — Smile Like You Mean It
Studies
have suggested that changes in physiology can have a significant change
in our psychology. How you hold your head, erect your back, or
genuinely smile can make you feel either depressed or happy.
So smile like
you mean it. Also known as a Duchenne smile, a genuine smile held for at
least 20 minutes can do marvelous things to your mind and your
emotions. Remember, your physical motions will dictate your state of
emotions, so be wary of how you carry yourself.
If you don’t
want to feel unhappy or depressed, smile like a happy person would
smile. This isn’t about faking it. This is about altering your
physiology to hack your psychology.
#6 — Enjoy One Simple Pleasure
What do you
love? Chocolate cake? A riveting romance novel? Something else? Whatever
it is, go out and enjoy it. It doesn’t have to cost you an arm and a
leg — the simple pleasures in life usually don’t cost much.
Go ahead and
indulge. This isn’t about overdoing something; this is about engaging
your mind, body, and spirit in something that just makes you happy.
Whatever it is, go ahead and do it. Your future-self might just thank
you for it.
#7 — Plan an Experience
At the end of
our lives, it’s not the things we acquired that we remember, but the
experiences we had. If you want to be happy, why not plan an experience?
It could be a dream trip a few years out, or even a hike next weekend.
The point? Plan
something. The incredibly-simple act of planning an experience will
give you something to look forward to. What makes you happy? Are you an
adventure seeker? Are you a history buff? Do other people make you
happy?
Whatever it is,
plan something around the thing that makes you most happy. It doesn’t
have to be something intricate, and it doesn’t have to be something
you’ll do tomorrow. Just as long as it’s something you plan to do at
some point, that’s all it takes.
#8 — Reconnect with an Old Friend
It easy to lose
touch with people over the years. When that happens, we’re left
wondering how things are going for them. From jobs to relationships,
children and beyond, we’re left scratching our heads remembering our old
friendships.
But rather than
just think about it, why not reconnect with an old friend? Look them up
on social media or give them a call if you still have their number.
Talk and reminisce about the good times you spent together. It will
surely put a smile on your face.
#9 — Help Someone Else
While problems
might make us unhappy, one incredibly-simple way to find a small piece
of happiness is to help someone else. It can be as simple as having a
conversation or being there for someone in their time of need.
This isn’t just
about charity. This is about your personal connection with people and
finding ways that you can add some value to their lives without looking
for something in return. This is the essence of loving “thy neighbor.”
#10 — Set a Meaningful Goal
Often, we set
goals the wrong way. We set them in our minds, leaving them in the
abstract. But, the only way to truly achieve something is to set the
goal by not only writing it out, but also ensuring that it has a
deep-enough meaning to you.
Meaningful
goals are the foundation of happiness. We will do far more to achieve
something that has deep-enough meaning to us than things that are
superficial. When we’re chasing after the superficial, it’s easy to be
in a constant state of unhappiness.
While success
doesn’t define happiness, achieving meaningful things does. For example,
we will do far more for our family, security, or freedom than we will
do to achieve a money goal or drive an exotic car for example.
#11 — Watch a Comedy
Happiness might
be fleeting for most, but one simple and easy way to find happiness
right now is to watch something funny. Watch a comedy or a funny sitcom.
This isn’t just about a temporary escape from reality, studies have found that laughing can actually improve our mental and physical health.
While watching
something funny won’t fix things overnight, it is one incredibly-simple
way to be happy right now, even if it’s momentarily. But the best part
about it is that not only can it give you temporary happiness, but it
can also provide long-term relief and even potential improvements for
what ails us.
#12 — Go for a Walk
We have a lot
going on all the time. So, just going for a walk can seem downright out
of the question. Who has the time to stroll around in the rain or sun?
But, not only is walking good for you physically, but it can also act as
a mental and spiritual pick-me-up.
Even when we
have a lot going on, going for a walk should become a priority, and it’s
something incredibly simple that can be done in this very moment to be
happy. It doesn’t mean you should forget about everything. It just means
that by focusing on the beauty and miracle of life, we can step outside
our own minds, even if only for a brief period.
#13 — Workout
It’s been long
extolled about how working out has numerous benefits for our physical
health. But it also affects our mental and spiritual health. It gets the
blood circulating physically, but it also stimulates the mind while
releasing happy endorphins such as dopamine and serotonin.
Working out is
seriously helpful if you want to cheer up right now. You don’t have to
go overboard and run for two hours. All you have to do is break a sweat
and put in a moderately-strenuous workout for 20 minutes. You’ll feel
far more happier once it’s done.
#14 — Forgive Someone
Mental clutter
can weigh us down. And, animosity is one of the most detrimental forms
of mental clutter. It takes far more energy to be angry and mean to
someone than it does to love and forgive them. So forgive someone for
something.
Whether you
pick up the phone, tell them in person, or just write a letter to them
that you’ll tuck away and never send, the act of forgiveness can set you
free. It’s a simple and direct way to let go of those hurt feelings and
instantly feel more happy in this very moment.
It’s not easy, I know. But, sometimes, we have to take the higher ground, no matter what the situation might be.
#15 — Write a Letter to Your 10-Year-Younger Self
One
incredibly-simple way to be happy right now is to write your
10-year-younger self a letter. What would you want to tell your
10-year-younger self? What lessons did you learn? What pain did you
suffer, but ultimately come out with a deeper understanding and
appreciation for life and love?
As we age, we
grow and we mature. We become better people over time through our
experiences. This writing exercise is about expressing what you’ve
learned over the past 10 years, and what advice you would give to your
younger self.
#16 — Flip the Script on Your Complaints
We all have
complaints. There are plenty of things we could say are wrong with our
lives. But, what happens when you flip the script on your complaints?
What happens when you find the silver-lining in the “bad stuff” going on
in your life?
This
incredibly-simple way to be happy right now works by using reason and
logic to convey the benefits of our problems. It doesn’t mean you’ll
solve them overnight; it just means that we can always find a way to
find the good, even in really bad situations.
#17 — Watch the Sunset
The beauty of
life is all around us. From the birds soaring high above, to the seasons
as they unfold, and, of course, to the sun as it sets in the west every
single day without fail. Sometimes, those sunsets can be quite magical.
If you don’t
live somewhere you can watch the sunset, opt for the sunrise. Wake up
really early and just watch the vibrant explosion of colors in the
morning sky. Or, find a sunset and sit in the sand somewhere, watching
as the sun kisses the ocean as it sets for another day.
The miracle of
life is all around us, and we can find happiness in the moments when we
seek them out. Seek out the sunset, no matter how far you have to travel
to catch it, and just revel in the moment, watching as the colors
linger in the sky even after the sun has disappeared.
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